Am I ignoring Christmas with my title? Nope, I just am referring to ALL the holidays that are in this season. Some I celebrate, some I don’t, realistically there are SO MANY Christmas traditions that one could go crazy tieing them all in and that isn’t even touching other faiths. The school does a good job filling in details about traditions in many faiths and cultures and it really does make we wish I could do them all.
I love a cool tradition. I wish I had a maid (don’t we all) not because I dislike cleaning but because I really really like doing crafty creative decorating things and too much time is sucked up with normal cleaning. This makes me pick and choose what we are doing because life doesn’t slow down to accommodate, still have jujitsu and girl scouts and chorus and school board and PTO etc.
This year things are complicated a little (more) because new house means that none of our previous decorating go-to work. First, everything we have from before looks laughably small because the scale of our rooms is totally different in this house. Second, we have very few places to put things, for example, we don’t have a shelf in the living room yet much less a mantle to hang stockings with care. I also had a minor panic attack when 9 more BOXES were imported into the house, but, I told myself they are simply Christmas stuff and I can’t hold my box angst against Christmas.
We are a tad behind on things but I think I’ve covered it well. The kids wanted the Santa beard countdown and I finally got it done this Monday. To cover the late start I put it in an envelope from the ‘north pole’ in our mailbox and had a note that the first beard must have gone to the old address… They totally understood and happily went on to decorate the Santa and hat and we have been trimming the beard daily since.
Two things we actually are nailing this year is our annual Hannukah dinner, and, we added in Advent. I had already decided to do advent and even had candles when my mom suggested that we do the candle lighting together via facetime. Sometimes moms and daughters are just on the same page and for the past two Sundays, we have lit the candles ‘together’ 1400 miles apart. For the last few years, we have invited our friend who celebrates Hannukah to come share it with us. I actually told him the dates this year (it was early) and the day that worked best happened to be Sunday so he joined us in lighting the advent wreath. Then we had a very nice dinner with friends and the deadline of this dinner party really helped move the Christmas decor along. We actually trimmed the tree with them too, it was a classic evening.
One tradition that I’ve been semi-avoiding is the Elf on a Shelf but I ended up right in the soup of arranging Christmas creatures because I fell in love with the Swedish Tomte and made a set of 5 with the kids. Well, one thing led to another and they have been found posed a time or two. I wonder if there is an award for holiday tradition combining because I am totally winning this year.
Like most parents, this feels like an overwhelming time of year- and for us, it comes at the end of an overwhelming year. The decision to stay in MN for Christmas does simplify many things but it is still a hard choice. I’m trying not to overcompensate because the point of not traveling was to lessen stress. I feel super lucky that the kids have nothing crazy on their lists, except for the incredibly crazy things that they know are long shots so won’t be sad they won’t happen like iPads or Horses. They are enjoying the traditions, the magic of tomte is infectious because every time I move they love it. In looking at pictures to add to this post, even though my list is still long (like I’ve done next to no gift shopping) we have done some fun stuff;
Not too bad and we have 2 weeks to go. One last thing for those interested in the curtain campaign, I’m finally finished with bedrooms and started on downstairs. I’m pretty proud of this one – since the picture I’ve added the sheers but I like how they look.
As I said, the list is forever long so I need to do both laundry folding and Christmas card assembly today so time to get off the computer. I hope your holiday season is going well!
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