normal? What is that?
I am finally on a something of a ‘normal’ day – house guest delivered to the airport and Lars back to work. However pushing myself to actually work out during kids swim lessons (right now) is proving too much, so, I guess, I’m not ‘quite’ back yet…
Daddy+ vacation was totally different from JustGirls vacation. Adding in his BFF, who is Niamh’s Godfather, was like mixing in a random good yet chaotic element to our world. We rolled with it and had a ton of fun but it was tiring fun with lots of late nights playing games and then I was the one to greet the sun with #3. I did get some naps in and that is why there was less blog than average because in the sleep v blog equation sleep had to win a few times. The kids are rebounding too from the excitement and changes for over a month and today I ended up bailing out on a Como Zoo trip 20 min after I got there because they were more than I cared to handle. They were tired, I was tired, mapquest led me astray, parking was horrible and when they were just walking the line of pushing buttons in the crowded zoo I decided it was time to
retreat tactfully change direction before there was a real meltdown from any of us. Recognizing when mommy needs a timeout is a real thing too!
Afternoon progressed much better, 2 of 3 napped out in the car and stayed that way until 3. Husband produced food and attention for me during his lunch and everything was going well leading into swim lessons. Still going fine as far as I know for them, for me I’ve read my book in peace for 30 min and then did a few money housekeeping things and now I blog rather than work out and clean. I’ve been blitzing the house zone by zone reclaiming it from the frat level of clean (a nice frat; engineers not lacross players if you know what I mean) but it still a job to get done while also parenting and visiting and hostessing.
I’m looking forward to getting back on the bandwagon of Moms club and all the things I know and love here but I can’t help but miss the grove I got into in NY. Good thing I can facetime and keep in the mix! My girlfriends today asked me where I like better and that isn’t something I can even answer. Here I have a house, friends, knowledge of the area and cool stuff to do, memberships to clubs and parks…. There I have my parents, my sister, my extended family, the big beach, and the limo equivalent of a boat (owned, maintained and skippered by dad but I get to take rides). Focusing on what I miss does nobody any favors so I’m happy to be here and I’m happy to have been there for a month.
I hope to also get back on the blogging bandwagon. I even got a concerned em from a reader asking if things were ok. Yes, totally fine, I’m ready to bet back to
boring, innodating, entertaining you all with summer midwest fun and excitement with a sprinkle of political, social, and crafting thoughts. We have no significant plans for the foreseeable future, I would love a weekend away with just Lars but finding someone to watch the three will be the trick. People might visit, we will go to nearby attractions, summer will roll into fall and I hope to keep being happy with today as it happens.